Esthermary Zippilli

Esthermary L. Zippilli

Tuesday, June 3rd, 1947 - Friday, March 15th, 2024
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Esther Mary Zippilli (Morrell), at the age of 76, flew high and free into the arms of her Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ, on March 15, 2024, at 8:05 pm, surrounded by loved ones in her home in Mays Landing, NJ, after a full life dedicated to the service and love of all the people who were a part of her life.

She was born in Camden, NJ, on June 3, 1947, at Cooper Hospital to predeceased parents Elwood Zechariah Morrell and Esther Morrell (Murphy). Esther Mary passed away on her Mother’s birthday. It is true to her personality because she never missed a celebration. Esther Mary graduated from Cherry Hill East High School in 1965.

Esther Mary met her soulmate, John Joseph Zippilli, in August 1964. They were together for 60 years and married for 57 years. The first time they met was at the Dunkin Donuts parking lot. John looked over and saw her for the first time. He told his friend, Pete, “I’m going to marry that girl.” His friend just laughed. He walked over and introduced himself, and asked for her name. She was with her cousin Mary at the time. She stated her name and walked away. The next time John saw her, she was a passenger in another car on a double date. John saw his chance to get her attention. He drove beside their vehicle and pretended to act like he was riding a horse and they were in a race. Esther Mary looked over at him and laughed. She then looked at her date and thought about how she wished she was in the car laughing with John. From that moment on, they began dating, and the rest is history.

They exchanged vows at Saint Peters Church in Merchantville, NJ, on August 20, 1966. When John looks back on that day, he chuckles with funny memories. His friend Pete leaned over to John and said, “Come on, John, we can go out that back door!” John responded, “Nope. No way.” He was thrilled to be marrying her. The church had the longest isle in South Jersey. The organ player was sick and didn’t show, so they had no music to walk down the aisle, which made it feel awkward, especially with such a long aisle. Their song was “Fly Me to the Moon” by Dion and the Belmonts. John looks back on those memories with a smile. John and Esther Mary were never a part and could be found laughing and joking with one another. They made each other coffee each morning and always made time to sit and conversate about everything. They could be seen going for walks through the neighborhood or bike rides together. Whatever they did, they did it together. They were fully committed to one another and deeply devoted.

Esther Mary and John went on to have five children together. When she was a little child, she stated that she didn’t want to play with toy babies. She had always dreamed of having real babies and lost interest in dolls. Being a mom was something she dreamed about even as a child. She was there for school trips, birthdays, every big life event, and countless graduations. She moved seamlessly into the Grandmother role with her seven grandchildren, babysitting every chance she got. She was a hands-on mother and grandmother.

She was a devoted mother raising her children, so it took her years to discover her true calling and find the perfect career. She dedicated twenty-one years to working as a counselor for Career Opportunity Development INC, caring for individuals with intellectual disabilities. Her caring empathy won over her clients, making her the favorite counselor. She arranged day trips and outings, took them to doctor appointments, and monitored all the medication. They were always in good hands when she was there.

She had a love of life and a great sense of humor. She was genuinely optimistic in nature and could always find the good in people. She was known for her great one-liners and quick comebacks that always had us laughing. A story our family shared with a laugh was the time she vacationed in Massachusetts. While driving through Plymouth at a red light, she looked at the people walking and driving in the cars. With a serious look, she stated, “Oh, will you look at that? They look just like us!” Everyone in the car laughed, and she was never able to live that one down. Another funny story is when she was vacationing in Florida with her family. She said she wanted to give her husband, John, a break from driving and took over. John was dozing off when Esther Mary said, “I just woke up!” needless to say, John drove the entire vacation after that.

Another fun fact about her was that she disliked her name. When calling to order anything over the phone, she would always use a different name that changed frequently. John would run out to get the pizza and come back laughing, saying, “Here is your food, Rihanna.” Each time she had any pickup order, we knew to ask whose name it was under.

Her hobbies included sewing projects and baking. She hemmed pants, made blankets, curtains, and fixed countless clothes for everyone in the family. She could also be found in the kitchen with her apron full of flour. She was known for her homemade rolls, stromboli, and sticky buns. She also enjoyed music and played it loud as she worked on her projects. She wasn’t shy about singing and would belt out her best Celine Dion and Martina McBride, to name a few. Music was something that she truly enjoyed.

Esther Mary loved attending Mission Point Church in Somers Point, NJ. The first time she attended services there, she said, “I found my church.” She attended frequently and connected with the fellowship. She would sit beside Eleanor or a family member and enjoy service. Throughout life, Esther Mary had a close relationship with the Lord. She believed in the power of prayer and miracles. Her one message she wanted to pass on to others was to work on their relationship with God and know he is always there. We are all comforted knowing that Esther Mary is with Jesus and all of her loved ones in Heaven. She will be deeply missed by everyone. “No eye has seen, no ear has heard, and no mind has imagined what God has prepared for those who love Him.” 1 Corinthians 2:9

She is survived by her husband, John Joseph Zippilli; son John David Zippilli; son Christopher E. Zippilli and wife, Rhean Zippilli (Rundio); son Kevin J. Zippilli and wife Melissa Zippilli (Snyder), daughter Kimberly Hildebrand (Zippilli), daughter Amy M. Pitale (Zippilli) and husband Thomas Pitale.

Grandchildren Christopher J. Zippilli, Colin J. Zippilli, Brandon T. Pitale, Alexis Pitale, Kevin J. Zippilli, Sienna Zippilli, and Noah G. Hildebrand. Esther Mary affectionately and lovingly embraced Elizabeth and Isaiah as her grandchildren.

Nieces and Nephews Christopher Zippilli, Jean Louise Zippilli, Jennifer Zippilli, Anna Marie Zippilli, and Tara Zippilli (Bedford), predeceased Lisa Zippilli.

Brother-in-law predeceased Vincent Zippilli survived by wife Kathy Zippilli, and predeceased Thomas Zippilli survived by wife Cathy Zippilli.

Donations can be made in her honor at National Ovarian Cancer Coalition

“I met my wife on a Friday night when my friend Pete and I went to the Dunkin Donuts. I saw this beautiful girl coming out the door and said to Pete, “I’m going to marry that girl.” He just laughed at me. At first, she didn’t want any part of me. But I was on a mission; everywhere she went, I went. She finally gave in, and the rest is history.

She probably saved my life because I was classified 1A for the draft in Vietnam for three years. I would have gone to Vietnam, but I couldn’t leave her. I decided to join the Army Reserve, believing I had a better chance of staying in the States. Luckily, it all worked out, and it was because of her.

The funny thing is I never asked her father for her hand in marriage. I just said to her, “Me wants to marry you!” I loved making her laugh, and that was us. She got me right away. I didn’t need to go all out because she knew what was in my heart.

We both said the most important thing to one another was, “I will always be there, I’ll never leave you, and I will always take care of you.” You’re in heaven now; I hope I made you happy. Thank you for the five wonderful children and seven special grandchildren.”

I love you always,
Your husband,

“My mom always took good care of me. She was there when I was sick and would take me shopping for whatever I needed. My favorite memory with my mom was going on day trips together. We would go to Lancaster, PA, and shop together, go out to eat, and look at the barns. I also enjoyed going to the 4H fair with my mom. We would walk around and look at the animals together. My mom and I loved animals and enjoyed visiting them and caring for our pets. My mom always greeted me when I came home from work and said, “John, you look tired. Go lay down in your room and rest.” It made me feel loved; she always cared about me. We sat together and watched our favorite shows on TV. Another favorite memory is my mom taking me to dinner with my friend Jaime and her sister. We had a nice time, and I will never forget that birthday. My mom always gave me good presents, and she always knew what I liked. I will miss hearing her laugh and telling me, “You’re doing a good job. I’m proud of you, and you’re a big helper.” I enjoyed caring for my mom, and I will miss her.”

Love your son,



“You left me with beautiful memories. Your love is still my guide, and though I cannot see you, you’re always by my side. I’m going to miss coming over for breakfast and Facetiming you when I was away. You loved the scenery. You said it was like you were there. Knowing you are in a better place now brings me peace.”
Love you forever.

“She would say the only thing in life that she wanted to be was a mother, and she was great at that. We will miss our yearly vacations to Myrtle Beach and the Outer Banks, where you would make your pepperoni bread. Most importantly, we will miss you. You have said that you don’t want us to be sad about your passing because you are in Heaven with your parents. Instead of being sad that you passed, you asked everyone to pray and think good thoughts of you.”
Love your son,


“My mother was devoted, and her family was her entire life. She endured grueling chemotherapy so that she could have another day with all of us. She never complained about being sick. She continued with a fierce determination not to leave her family. When asked if this was too much for her, she would say, “What, and leave my family?” To her, there was no choice but to put up the fight of her life. She always said, “If there were any danger, I would throw my body before you and protect you all. I would die for you.” I always remembered her saying that to me. She would say that is what a mother does for her children. Watching her make the decision to fight through treatments reminded me of how she would always choose her family over anything that came her way. To say how proud I am of her strength and willpower is an understatement.

I want to share some of my most cherished memories of my mom and the impact she made on me as a person. As a child, my mom always made my birthdays feel special. She would pick me up from school and take me out for a picnic at the park or do whatever I wanted because, as she stated, it was my day. My final birthday we shared was spent in Lancaster, PA, with my son Noah. Birthdays won’t be the same without her, and I will carry on her memory by making birthdays special for my son.

When I was a little girl, she joined me on my school field trips, which always made me feel special for that day. When I was a kid, I remember her watching Oprah shows and wanting an hour of silence from her five kids. We never did give her an hour of quiet time in our loud house. She always had so much patience with us that it was almost comical. Once, she chased us around with a fabric slipper to smack us, and when she did, it was so soft that we would laugh. We knew her level of patience and sense of humor. My mom never cursed or hit us, even if we sometimes deserved it.

In my early twenties, we took a day trip and passed Richman’s Ice Cream Restaurant in Pilesgrove, NJ. She said with excitement, “You know what? I want to get ice cream here with you! Let’s make a memory.” We got ourselves a table and ordered our ice cream, and as we were waiting for our ice cream to come out, she said, “Don’t ever be too busy to stop and make a memory. A memory will last a lifetime, and this may take forty minutes out of our schedule. I want you always to remember this day we stopped here for ice cream.” I remember smiling at her and nodding. At that very moment, I realized how right she was, and after that, I stopped to do the little things that count and focused on building memories with people I care about. Mom, I never did forget that memory.

My mom and I enjoyed sewing projects and frequently visited the fabric store together. Some of my funniest stories about my mom are in that store. We were shopping partners, and it was our thing. We were coworkers for many years, working side by side for the same company. My mom also enjoyed taking pictures. She once took my picture and lost her footing and fell. Like in slow motion, she began to roll down a hill and never stopped taking my picture. We laughed so hard we had tears in our eyes. It’s my favorite picture because it captures me laughing at my mom’s sense of humor. When I look through my most cherished memories, my mom was behind the camera. She always attended every event.

She was there to drive me to the hospital when I was in labor. She was so excited that she kept saying she felt like she was in labor, too, and almost side-swiped another car out of excitement. Getting to the hospital was a wild drive, and I’m glad she was a part of that special day. After I gave birth, she spent countless hours with her grandson Noah so I could get some needed rest. I walked in on her once holding her grandson and listening to “My Heart Will Go On” by Celine Dion. She swore he could hit a high note, and I had just missed it. She always said, “He loves music and can sing because I would sing to him as a baby and play music.” I believe that to be true. Our last time singing together was a few months before she passed away. Mom, Noah, and I each had a toy musical instrument to play and sang to Boeheim Rhapsody Muppets version. We all laughed together and smiled throughout the entire song. My mom knew how to have fun with us. Noah will miss Grandmom reading him books; it was their favorite time together.

Lastly, my mom was my biggest supporter. When I was going to college, I would call her on my long drive home, and we would talk about everything I learned in class. She read every paper I ever wrote, and we would joke that she also earned a degree with me because of how involved she was. I envisioned her in the audience in every public speaking situation, which calmed me. She always pushed me to continue my career, and I always wanted to make her proud. I owe a lot to her and the support she always gave me to keep going.

Mom, thank you for being my number one supporter. Thank you for teaching me about motherhood and how to slow down enough to make long-lasting memories. Thank you for always being there. I will keep you in my heart and cherish every moment we shared together. I know you will be there with open arms to greet me into heaven when my day comes. I know we will be together again and you won’t miss any special occasion. You will show up as you did in life. Our bond as mother and daughter cannot be broken. Our love will continue to grow. I will miss you, Mom. Until we meet again.”
Love you forever,

Kimberly Ann

“Most people want to be famous when they grow up. My answer when I was asked was that I wanted to be just like my mom. Mom handled everything she faced with grace and dignity. She was happiest surrounded by family. She loved to bake, sew, and take care of her family most of all. She attended any school function she could for her kids and grandkids. I adored you and always will. I will always be your baby. Our bond will never be broken even though you’re not physically here. Love you forever, Mom.”
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